My 90th day traveling abroad! Wow, I can’t believe I was on the road for 90 days. I also can’t believe I had the discipline to post something for 90 days in a row, even if it was only a few sentences here and there. Kudos to me. Yes, I’m giving myself a pat on the back.
So on this last day, I visited my grandmother in the hospital. She’s been sick for quite some time, but was unfortunately in the hospital for a different reason. A caretaker was pushing her in a wheelchair and hit a bump. Momentum took my frail grandmother to the pavement and broke her leg. She looked so sad, small, and delicate in a cast, but was happy to see me. She first thought I was my dad. I guess we look alike!
When I was booking my flight home, I remember being upset there wasn’t a direct flight from Singapore to San Francisco. Now, I’m really grateful that I had a one night layover in Korea. That was actually the last time I saw my grandmother alive. She passed away 3 months later. It my sound strange, but when I think back on her, I won’t be remembering the last time I saw her. Instead, I’m going to fill it with as many other happy memories as I can remember. Actually, you know what? I’m not going to be thinking the last time I saw her was a sad thing. She was happy. I was happy. We got to talk, laugh, and smile! What a memorable last meeting. She’s probably much happier in heaven anyways. Her dog’s up there and everyone knows he was waiting for her in heaven. Cause all dogs go to heaven.
And just like that, my SEA trip was over. I was back in the states in 14 hours. I was hoping I’d come back with some sort of revelation and that I could look at SF with a different point of view. But as I was going back home in a cab, I didn’t feel anything new. I didn’t feel rejuvenated or motivated. It just felt like I was coming back from any other trip. Why? Did I just waste 90 days?! Of course not. I eventually figured out why, but that’s for another time. Maybe tomorrow? I’m going to try to keep writing everyday. So yes. Tomorrow!








